i have got a boyfriend and iam not sure if he loves me coz he keeping on hurting me,insulting me,cheating on me and i ask him he says he is sorry.i really love this guy but am not sure about him.he doesnt me to called by other guys, he doesnt want to have friends and iam staying with him for the past three months we were fight everyday coz he thinks iam cheating on him.i dnt know what to do
Merry Meet Seeker,
It is amazing that some people can take so much abuse in life. I am not sure why you say that your boyfriend loves you. From what you have written, there is no way I can believe that he is in love with you. Consider this:
1. He keeps hurting you
2. He cheats on you
3. He says he is sorry but the abuse continues
4. He doesn’t trust you
5. He doesn’t trust his friends with you
6. You fight with each other every day.
7. He thinks you are cheating on him.
Remember, there are about 3 billion men on this planet. It is not like we have such a tough time finding a good one. The best thing for you is to learn to stand on your own two feet and demand that everyone you meet treat you with respect. THAT IS THE ONLY WAY TO LIVE A HAPPY LIFE.
You may have seen abusive relationships in your family go on and on, but that is NO way to live a good life. All of us have INFINITE possibilities every moment (yes, this very moment) and we don’t have to do anything that we don’t feel good about.
In witchcraft, we believe that we can do anything so long as we don’t hurt anyone. Obviously, you are staying with this man for some reason. It is not love, it is not joy, it is not trust. I am not sure why you still don’t know what to do.
The very next thing you need to do as soon as you wake up tomorrow is to find a job. If you don’t have enough education to find a good job, go to a school. In many countries, the government helps pay for schooling for people who cannot afford it.
Since you are on a computer, you can also google “Freelance jobs” and find many online jobs that will help you gain your self-respect back. Learn to stand on your own two feet so that NO ONE IN THIS WORLD will treat you like this again.
Hope this helps you gain some self-confidence to get the control back in your life.
Brightest Blessings.
Rose.
