I am in love with a man that has told me he cares about me but doesn’t want a commitment, he says he wants to keep his options open but still wants to be with me when I am around. Is there away to cast a spell to get him to only want to be with me?

Hello there my dear,

One of the most common questions that I hear is something along the lines of, %u201CIs there a way / spell that will make someone want to be with me / love me?%u201D

Well, the short answer is, %u201CNo%u2026 there is not.%u201D

One of the core precepts of the Wiccan faith is to harm no other. If you are weaving spells or intoning rituals which are meant to sway the minds of others, then you are by definition harming them.

Free will is one of the most precious gifts we have been granted. Spells and rituals that are designed to infringe upon that free will and force others to do things by your design, instead of in accord with their own will, steals that most precious of gift from them.

In addition, whatever feelings or desires that they manifested for you would never be real or honest, but would instead simply be the manifestation of the magics. Would you really want to be with someone under those circumstances? Never really knowing if their feelings for you were genuine%u2026 or simply the product of magic?

So, in this particular case, my best advice to you is to take the time and put in the effort to do things the old fashioned way. After all, anything really worth doing is certainly worth doing right. If it is meant to be, then there is no need to rush or hurry things %u2013 and you will be much happier in the long term from having not done something you would likely regret.